The best relationships in the world today, are forged from hard work and dedication, equally contributed by the persons involved. We all crave that type of relationship, don’t we? That type of relationship that only stronger after passing through the hardest or most trying phase ever, but again why won’t we, when its no hidden fact that such relationships births success in every aspect of one’s life.
Few people are lucky to have this kind of relationship while so many others crave it, and are at a loss as to getting to such happy and strong place in their various relationships.
Here are 7 tips to owning a strong bullet-proofed relationship.
Mutual trust: absolutely no relationship can ever work if it lacks trust. Trust is paramount in any relationship, be it an intimate one or even work. If you want your relationship to be the bulletproof type, you and yours must have mutual trust for each other. Both of you should know what your partner can do should there be circumstances where mistrust might want to creep in.
Respecting each other’s privacy: I tell people always, it is okay to keep some secrets to yourself in a relationship, as long as that secret will not on the long run, hurt your relationship. Do not snoop around, this only breeds distrust and eventually death of your relationship.
Making big decisions together: this has broken so many loving relationship with one person thinking every major decision should be taken by them and only them, a notion which is absolutely wrong. Every major decision, especially for married couple, must be taken together. Like they say, two heads is better than one.
Work together as a team: team work births success and who doesn’t want to be successful. You and yours must always work as a team, this helps reduce the stress that comes with having to do everything alone , think through a situation all by yourself. When you work as a team, there will be progress in every area of your lives.
Give one another space: there will be times we all just need our space, but we should know that when this happens, it doesn’t mean the relationship is at the verge of collapsing, it simply means we all are human and humans love their space. When your partner take their me time, respect that time and let them enjoy being in their own world for whatever amount time required.
Showing gratitude: for every gift received, either huge or tiny, learn to say thank you. I say thank you for the smallest of things and you will be amazed at the magic it recreates. Your ability to show gratitude when your partner least expects it goes a long way in strengthening your relationship. On days you have surplus and days you can barely catch a breath, be grateful.
Letting go of the little things: when you learn to let things go, you’d be surprised how strong your relationship will be. No one likes a nagging partner, absolutely no one. In marriage, it is very common to find your partner acting childish, yes, this is indeed a common sight and what do you do in such situations? Instead of yelling or repeatedly talking about it, just let things slide. Overlooking small errors, is one of the factors that aids strong relationships, no one like a nag.